In 2018, You Will Be Alright


The D/s dynamic.

Master. Slave. Submissive. Dominant. Switch. Primal. New. Old. Divorced. Separated. Isolated.

No matter what you’re feeling, no matter where you are in life, 2018 will be okay for you.

It’s easy though feel fear approaching the new year. What have you achieved? Where are you going? How will you get there? What plan do you have?

The thing is, through hard work and determination, through taking one step at a time – no matter if they’re baby steps – you’ll be perfectly fine. It’s an old saying but it’s something that I found when I was at the lowest in my life – things have a way of working themselves out. What that means for you, time will tell – but things tend to fall into place.

But you can’t expect things to come to you. These things take work. Time. You have to want what you’re seeking. And some days you need to challenge yourself, cauterise the negative thinking and get out of bed.

The same goes for people new to the dynamic, new to exploring where they fit into all of this – whether you’re single and looking for the right partner, whether you’re in a marriage and trying to find the right balance –

All you need is patience, love and the drive to explore and educate. You may not feel up to it every day, some days it will be tough and overwhelming and you will feel like you are about to crash, but keep pushing, keep moving. Keep thinking this is just one day, tomorrow is a new start. A fresh start.

You can achieve anything. If I can, you definitely can.


So, 200 followers…

I’ve just received two hundred followers! That’s insane. To me, that’s not only two hundred people that find my writings to be entertaining or helpful but that’s 200 hundred life stories. Some of them I have heard, some of them – to my dismay – I have not yet heard. I want to thank each and every one of you – the old fans and the newer ones – for coming along for the ride.

For some of you, if I haven’t left a message or a comment on your blog, know that that’s probably due to how busy life can be. I will be around to you and your stories shortly, make no mistake.

So, thank you ladies and gents, it means the world!