Let’s Ask Questions: 2018 Edition!

 

As it’s the start of 2018 and there are new people coming to my blog, I thought I would put out another one of these Q/A blog post / threads and give the opportunity for anyone to ask any questions, should they so desire.

Of course, if you are comfortable sending an email, you’re welcome to write to my email, even if it’s just an anxious info dump. Lord knows I do it on this here blog.

Anyway. I found an interesting question out there that I wanted to tackle:

Are Dominants possessive towards women?

Protective, yes. Possessive? I don’t think so.

It’s difficult to talk without a scenario to relate to so I’ll use my own relationship.
My lady has her own independence. She’ll go out with friends, she’ll go for drinks or stop over, whatever the case may be.
I’m not jealous of that. I have no interest in saying she cannot lead her own life, because even in a D/s relationship I think there needs to be this space for independent growth. I think that is healthy.

Keep in mind, she asks for my permission each time and am sure, if I said no I don’t like that idea, she would come home and sit by me. But as I stated above, it’s a healthy thing for her to have that time without me. We can get back to our bubble, our roles and our sex when we come together again.

Now a M/s dynamic would be a little different. I can’t say, because each person has a different opinion.
Perhaps a little possessiveness is endearing, I know my lady feels that way about me.

But if it’s unhealthy, if one person is feeling trapped and suffocating, if a Dominant becomes unreasonable and unapproachable in their possessiveness, I think perhaps it would be a good time to take a step back and reflect and digest on the situation.

That being said, don’t be shy now! The only silly question is the one not asked.

The Dominant’s Growl: #1 – Can a Dom Kneel?

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Due to readers enjoying my Q/A series of 30 Days of Kink, I have decided to start a new series – one that is based off a few blogs I have seen here or there that do The Dominant Prompts.

So, welcome to The Dominant’s Growl, a little Q/A series I’ll be putting up every (Australian) Monday.
If you have a question, leave it in the comment section below and I’ll catalogue it to be answered in a future entry, so long as people enjoy my writing.

Today’s question I have borrowed from somewhere that escapes my tired mind:

Can a Dom kneel?

Can they? Sure, I think so. I know I do.
Why? Because the way I see it, that’s part of the personality.
If my submissive happens to be having a shitty day and her head is lowered, I will automatically kneel to get closer to her.
If I order her to kneel at my feet so I can come on her tits, I will kneel just to run my mouth along the tits that are mine to devour.

To me, a Dominant can still kneel because He/She is still worshipping you in his or her own way. And that’s just part of the personality, part of them taking you under their wing and reigniting their ownership.

So: Questions! Let me read them if you have them and if not, I’ll just keep writing!