ABOUT AND CONTACT

Hi there and welcome to my little realm of journals and stories!

I’m a 30-something Primal Dominant – and something of a writer – that hails from Australia. I knew I had an inkling for BDSM when I was in my teens but it wouldn’t be until my late twenties that I would confront that massive change and stop being fearful and start exploring. This is where the blog comes in.

I started this blog for a few reasons. I was at the beginning of my journey into my dominance and was feeling new and alone in the world about it. I wanted a space to explore my thoughts and feelings without shame or fear – to go where my heart had never been. Touch on the things that my upbringing taught me were taboo and dangerous.

And because I’ve always loved to write for as long as I can recall, this meant writing everything down. Thoughts and feelings. Stories. Capturing these ideas at magical points of time. Writing them was and is a way to explore my innermost fantasies – the darkest and the deepest that got right down to my nature.

But I also started this blog because I wanted to reach someone out there like me. Who was new and searching for answers – or just searching for answers. If I could pass on just something to someone, help them in any way, that would be magic. That’s probably why I like to mentor.

This blog before you is a scrapbook of my ever changing journey. A scrapbook of my love language. A scrapbook of wet dreams, dark fantasies and musings at 3am that keep me up all wide eyed and achingly hard or just wide eyed and wondering. I’m still growing, still changing, still wondering and musing and dreaming up smut.

I hope you enjoy it. I hope it helps. I hope it captures your Imagination.

If you have any questions – about me, about my writing, about my dominance or maybe you’re seeking guidance for yourself, do not FOR ONE SECOND – self edit your mind. You are welcome here. You are valid and wonderful.

And you can reach me at any of the icons below OR at the email for the blog: darkanddominant@hotmail.com

There’s a few d’s in there so make sure you type it out correctly. I respond to every email!

Take care!

Let’s connect here, maybe? — 

30 thoughts on “ABOUT AND CONTACT”

  2. Sir, one of the odd things i have found, especially on wordpress and in connection with this odd little world of kink, are the manners. people write kindly and gently in comments, manners and words are carefully written and feelings and hearts are taken into consideration. such a shame the other world cannot see quite how beautiful things are this side of the world.

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  6. You seem like a old soul to me, so inspiring you are. I love all your stories. I stumbled upon you at a perfect time. I am new to being a submissive, so your input and how you treat your kitten is eye opening.And the importance of being a gentleman as a DOM is very sexy. Thank you.

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    1. Thank you very much, Victoria. I’m glad I have been able to help you. I hope you stick around and join me on my journeys! And please, if you have anything to discuss behind closed doors, do let me know straight away!

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  8. Wow amazing Sir as i have has some bad experiences in the D/s realm and now am almost scared to return to it. Love what You have wrote

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    1. Hey there!

      While I thank you for your interest, I have since had a crisis of faith regarding patreon. Namely that I don’t think my writing should be something that people pay for. I forgot this was on my about me and I’ll take it down now.

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  11. Love your tumblr by the way. My app is a little haunted & it won’t authorize for me to post there right now however I really enjoyed looking at your content. Your taste is impeccable.

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  13. Good morning. Firstly I wanted to say thanks again for the nomination for the Mystery Blogger Award, I feel special to be thought of. This morning however I am in the midst of contacting all my nominations. Unfortunately it was brought to my attention that the creator of this award is a young 19 year old girl. My blog contains adult content and I’m not comfortable with submitting my entry no longer. I will be withdrawing today. I of course will leave that decision up to you. Have a great day. 😊 and thanks once again. Ps. 😁 I enjoy reading your blog and will be going back through your posts to check out your earlier stuff some more. 😊

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  14. I’m new to your blog but am happy to have landed here.

    will add you to my roll. it’s always refreshing to see a blog written from a Dominant perspective as too often I find that most of the blogs are written from the POV of the submissive / little.

    It took us a short while but after some time in D/s we came to identify as DD/lg.I enjoyed reading your post on identifying as a Daddy Dom.

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  16. Hi, I know this sounds so stupid but I REALLY need a sub mentor, I’m not coping on my own and basic letting my usual pattern of abuse start. I want to learn how a sub is different and if this guy is worth it. Please, I’m not online a lot so if you want to whatsapp me my number is +27835227440 or my email. Thanks so mich dor caring so much!

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