Hi there and welcome to my blog! Thank you for stopping by!
I’m just a regular thirty-something Dominant man that hails from Australia. I started expressing traits and tastes for BDSM and D/s in my teens but long story short, it wasn’t until my twenties that I would discover the extent to which I was interested in the lifestyle.
In this blog before you, you’ll find a collection of my rambling journals on my thoughts and life, my own erotica and my musings on the psychology of BDSM and D/s interactions in my life.
I started this blog for a few reasons. I struggled a lot with my feelings in the beginning. I was shy and raised from a conservative Catholic household and I didn’t know where to begin at all, much less knew how to reconcile with that part of my mind. So I wanted to begin a blog that was friendly and informative to the people out there that struggle like I had, that didn’t know where to begin and needed help. If I can ease just one persons mind, I thought, it would be all worthwhile.
Beyond wanting to help, Beyond enjoying writing erotica and personally growing through publishing it online and interacting with others, I wanted a place to journal the other parts of my mind, the darker parts of my mind. The dark fantastical erotica, the primal impulses, the very thoughts that scared me in the beginning. I wanted to know if I was truly alone – and in turn I wanted to share this with whoever came by my blog, to inspire them to share and be open.
If you want to ask a question, if you feel like saying hello or if you simply need a friendly chat, you are more than welcome to write to me at
Please don’t hesitate. Everyone is welcome, regardless of sex, race, age or background. I certainly don’t judge, nor would you be bugging me.
I don’t claim to be a masterful expert. I’m just a lowly regular Joe! I’m still learning each day and growing and adapting to new strategies and activities.
Lastly, thank you if you’ve followed, thank you if you’re here from a search engine and thank you if you’re a regular lurker – I appreciate your time sincerely and I hope you’ve enjoyed reading.