Hello! I’m a thirty-something Dominant from Australia that has been exploring the world of the lifestyle since I was 18 and I’ve finally decided to document my experiences, thoughts and feelings.

When I was young and exploring the BDSM ocean, I had no help whatsoever.
My main goal with this blog is first and foremost to help others. Either with counsel, information or just to let readers know that someone has been through this terrifying journey and survivedย and so can you.

Here you’ll find me documenting on my journey, musings on things in the lifestyle and plus I also occasionally dabble in poetry or erotic works. A lot of them apparently dark.

So should you want to discuss anything, ask questions or even if it’s to vent about anything – anything at allย – you may find me at:


You can also reach me on a few other platforms where there’s a few other explicit goodies:



I respond as quickly as I can and you’re always welcome to message as much as you’d like.

I don’t claim to be a masterful expert. I’m still learning each day and growing and adapting to new strategies and activities.

I am happy to help all who want help, but it is a journey you must be ready to take. I cannot help you there but I will say this: please don’t hesitate if you want to talk.


24 thoughts on “ABOUT AND CONTACT

  1. Sir, one of the odd things i have found, especially on wordpress and in connection with this odd little world of kink, are the manners. people write kindly and gently in comments, manners and words are carefully written and feelings and hearts are taken into consideration. such a shame the other world cannot see quite how beautiful things are this side of the world.

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  2. You seem like a old soul to me, so inspiring you are. I love all your stories. I stumbled upon you at a perfect time. I am new to being a submissive, so your input and how you treat your kitten is eye opening.And the importance of being a gentleman as a DOM is very sexy. Thank you.

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    1. Thank you very much, Victoria. I’m glad I have been able to help you. I hope you stick around and join me on my journeys! And please, if you have anything to discuss behind closed doors, do let me know straight away!


  3. Wow amazing Sir as i have has some bad experiences in the D/s realm and now am almost scared to return to it. Love what You have wrote


    1. Hey there!

      While I thank you for your interest, I have since had a crisis of faith regarding patreon. Namely that I don’t think my writing should be something that people pay for. I forgot this was on my about me and I’ll take it down now.


  4. Love your tumblr by the way. My app is a little haunted & it won’t authorize for me to post there right now however I really enjoyed looking at your content. Your taste is impeccable.


  5. Good morning. Firstly I wanted to say thanks again for the nomination for the Mystery Blogger Award, I feel special to be thought of. This morning however I am in the midst of contacting all my nominations. Unfortunately it was brought to my attention that the creator of this award is a young 19 year old girl. My blog contains adult content and I’m not comfortable with submitting my entry no longer. I will be withdrawing today. I of course will leave that decision up to you. Have a great day. ๐Ÿ˜Š and thanks once again. Ps. ๐Ÿ˜ I enjoy reading your blog and will be going back through your posts to check out your earlier stuff some more. ๐Ÿ˜Š


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