Hi there and welcome to my blog!
I’m a thirty-something Dominant man that hails from Australia. I’ve been in the lifestyle since my teens but it was only through my twenties that I started to explore and define who I am and where I belong.
In this blog you’ll find a collection of my rambling journals, my erotica and my musings on the psychology of BDSM and D/s interactions.
I started this blog for a few reasons. I struggled a lot with finding my way initially. I was shy and didn’t know where to begin at all. So I wanted to offer a blog that was friendly and informative while still retaining that personal voice from me to some newcomers that come along my blog.
Beyond that, it’s a way for me to combat my shyness by sharing my erotic non fiction or fictional stories, my thoughts and the feelings I come across in my day to day life and in my own relationship with my kitten. I’m fascinated with the psychology behind BDSM and D/s relationships and you’ll often find me posting late at night about the mind.
If you want to ask a question, feel like saying hello or if you need a friendly chat, you are more than welcome to write to me at
Please don’t hesitate. Everyone is welcome, regardless of sex, race, age or background. I certainly don’t judge, nor would you be bugging me.
I don’t claim to be a masterful expert. I’m still learning each day and growing and adapting to new strategies and activities.
Lastly, thank you if you’ve followed, thank you if you’re here from a search engine – I appreciate your time and I look forward to chatting with you.