Hello! I’m a thirty-something Dominant from Australia that has been exploring the world of the lifestyle since I was 18 and I’ve finally decided to document my experiences, thoughts and feelings.
When I was young and exploring the BDSM ocean, I had no help whatsoever.
My main goal with this blog is first and foremost to help others. Either with counsel, information or just to let readers know that someone has been through this terrifying journey and survived and so can you.
Here you’ll find me documenting on my journey, musings on things in the lifestyle and plus I also occasionally dabble in poetry or erotic works. A lot of them apparently dark.
So should you want to discuss anything, ask questions or even if it’s to vent about anything – anything at all – you may find me at:
You can also reach me on a few other platforms where there’s a few other explicit goodies:
I respond as quickly as I can and you’re always welcome to message as much as you’d like.
I don’t claim to be a masterful expert. I’m still learning each day and growing and adapting to new strategies and activities.
I am happy to help all who want help, but it is a journey you must be ready to take. I cannot help you there but I will say this: please don’t hesitate if you want to talk.