Now that I have a few new followers that might not be knowledgable on my customs or what have you, I thought I’d present the opportunity to ask me questions either through email or in the comments and I’ll respond in the next entry!
For now, here’s some questions for this week’s:
What are your basic philosophies in regard to D/s?
I think both the dominant and submissive need to be open to communication and to trust, but more importantly I think they both need to be open to change. A D/s relationship should challenge your beliefs and perceptions and together, you should find the universe like you’ve seen before.
But to come down from my romantic mind, caution should be exercised as well, for there can be dangers present in both personalities, and dangers present in elements explored.
A false dominant could teach a new submissive an unhealthy outlook whereas an unhealthy submissive could lead herself down negative paths.
Sensitivity is key when exploring. No matter the topic. Always be aware of the idea that trial and error can come at a moment and that we are human.
How much time are you willing to devote to training a new sub, and how much of her time would you require in return. Would you have daily contact with your submissive/slave?
I usually train for a month, possibly longer, just to familiarise my submissive with my practices to see how she responds and if she responds positively. Also, perhaps there’s something she makes me see that excites me and engages my mind. Maybe she can teach me.
I’m a 24/7 man. I can’t help it. Having ownership of her, every part of her, every waking hour is both intensely erotic and satisfying on a deeper level. I crave it and without it, I’m all sorts of manic or edgy. So if a submissive wanted to choose me, it would be based on whether or not she is a 24/7 pet herself. Whether or not she wants to submit every detail of herself and her life for me. And I’m talking everything, every action, every item of clothing, every choice she makes, how she dresses, where she goes – everything.
So yes, daily contact is a must. A definite. A holy-God-I-can’t-breathe-unless-I-know-she’s-wearing-those-cute-black-lacy-panties-that-ride-up-her-pale-ass feeling that vibrates within.
So, ladies and gents, anything and everything you want to ask is acceptable. There’s no taboo too sacred, no act too weird, no thought too vulgar – challenge me. I dare you. Take your best shot. I’ll be waiting.