The impact of a D/s lifestyle on my body, mind and spirit
Taking on a 24/7 submissive and entering into a D/s lifestyle has changed me, I think, for the better.
For one thing, I’m not as angry and/or emotional.
But that’s not to say I’m cold either, just that being a leader, having an environment in which I get to satiate the beast and taking care of someone in so many ways, emotionally, physically, hopefully even insecurity – all of this has proved to make me healthier in the mind.
I still struggle with anxiety and it’s always threatening to overflow the cup but I’m probably more “me” then I have been, maybe ever. And I noticed this change, and people – friends and family have noticed this change.
If I had to pinpoint anything, I would say that it’s because I’ve met someone with an equally dark persona and that this creates an outlet for anything toxic and I recycle all that into something positive.