What are your thoughts on a submissive with an errant mouth? Acceptable ever or never?
From my perspective, I would say it depends on the situation.
As a teacher, I employ certain rules and regulations which I expect my student to live their life by. It’s why I was chosen as teacher in the first place.
If there is reason for an errant mouth, I would hope that my student comes to me and says what is on her mind in a polite manner. If the words come tumbling out in either fear or anger, I will listen patiently. I am aware of an anxious mind and would not wish it upon my worst enemies. But there is a line to what can be said and if that line is crossed, I will either give a gentle warning or hand out a punishment.
If a submissive has an errant mouth for no reason whatsoever then yes, that is unacceptable and there will be consequences. I am all for nurturing my student so that she grows to become herself in a way that maybe she never realised but I will not accept insubordinate behaviour.
That being said, if being insubordinate is part of his or her biological make up, I will simply explore why this is so with that person. It’s what I offer to each and every one that comes across my blog. I am all for exploring why we behave in such a manner. Again, if there is reason behind it, I’d rather work to the bottom of the cause with my student so that we may come out stronger for it.
Also: My last post was 15 days ago? I can’t be away from this that long again.