How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?
I don’t really dress, the significant aspect here for me is my voice and body language. I let my voice and body command her attention and let my eyes to lock her into place. I’m told my eyes have that intense effect and for me personally, I appreciate eye contact.
That being said, in moments where we role play — yeah, I’ll dress in attire appropriate to the setting. I do like a good suit. I like tearing out my belt and choking her with it, for starters.
More than that though, it can be a rich experience setting a scene and wearing specific attire to set the scene.